Me in the Middle of Week 7 Reflection ~ Grateful for Kindness

-Kindnessis a powerful reminder that behind all the negativity and malice, there lies goodnessthat has the powerto change the world.- (1)

Week Seven ~ Grateful for Kindness

The seventh prompt for the Kindness Challenge 2017 is Grateful for Kindness.


This quote reminds me that there is always hope.  There’s so much unkindness and hatred in the world ….. and yet I still believe in our innate goodness.  Life is good and I’m grateful for kindness.  We may not always live up to that kindness …. and we keep on trying.  

The poem, “Children Learn What They Live”, always makes a lasting impression on me every time I read it.  Just beginning to change with this one poem would give this old world a jump-start on the road to becoming kinder.  None of us have had a ‘perfect’ childhood, and some have even seen abuse in their lives, yet we can all find threads of kindness along the way that we can be grateful for:

Children Learn What They Live
by Dorothy Law Nolte, Ph.D.

If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in those about them.
If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.

Copyright © 1972 by Dorothy Law Nolte

*From Psychology Today*


83-Yr-Old Was Too “Terrified” To Ride Escalator, Until A Kind Young Man Took His Arm.

“A little redemption for the suffering human soul.

The older man was paused at the top of an escalator and a few people started gathering waiting to get on. It was clear he was feeling unsure and this young man offered the simplest kindness: an outreached arm and a ‘can I help you on, sir?’

He quietly started to explain to the young man that he had gotten stuck on an escalator once and was a little scared. The young man gently offered an assurance, they looked at each other eye to eye for just a moment and the older man accepted his arm. Everyone else remained patient.

So, so sweet to witness!

In about an hour, the evening news will air and we’ll be reminded of division, political mud-slinging, shootings and other heartaches. But today, violence, age, politics and other social lines were blurred and one person simply helped another. I wanted to hug both of them.

Whoever this young man is, YOUR FAMILY RAISED YOU RIGHT! THANK YOU!

So, please look for the silver linings – as I was so fortunate to witness this evening.”


Thank You Kindness

* Images by Pixabay

14 thoughts on “Me in the Middle of Week 7 Reflection ~ Grateful for Kindness

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  2. Thank you so much for sharing. I’ve never heard that poem before but it really touched me. I always find our definition of “normal” fascinating because it’s relative and this poem illustrates why. I loved the story you shared as well. Thank you so much for participating in the challenge. I’ve enjoyed getting to know you better and seeing how the weeks unfolded for you. ❤

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  3. Thank you for all you wonderful reflections, Mary Lou. I like the act of kindness at the escalator. We never know what people’s stories are and why they might hesitate to do the things we deem natural. When we stop, interact and listen, we can create so much more space for connection in this world.

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    • I agree, Patricia! This challenge has me looking for acts of kindness rather than focusing on the negative things in the news lately. 🙂


  4. What wise words Nolte offered about what children learn and such a powerful reminder to pay attention to what we’re demonstrating. And what a lovely example the escalator story is – such a beautiful kindness.

    I’ve really enjoyed reading your reflections on the challenge Mary Lou over these weeks – thank you!

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    • Thank you, Deborah! The seven weeks went by so quickly! The pace of this challenge works better for me than the pace of the AtoZ Challenge. 🙂

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    • I thought it was wonderful that the person behind them took the time to capture the moment and shared it with everyone. There are so many of these acts of kindness that go unnoticed. Thanks, Lulu! 🙂

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  5. I framed a copy of that poem many years ago; it’s more relevant today than ever. Like you, I believe in the innate goodness of people. I have “faith” in the majority of us.

    A lovely post, a lovely reminder…

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    • Thank you, Linda. It really resonated with me, especially the criticism and shame part. Parenting is such an important role. 🙂


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