Me in the Middle of Writing



The Eternal Sea of Creativity

The Eternal Sea of Creativity

© Mary Lou


“I must write it all out at any cost.  Writing is thinking.  It is more than living, for it is being conscious of living.” 

~ Anne Morrow Lindbergh ~

Why Do I Write?

I write because I have a story to tell and memories to share.  The story and the memories are through my eyes and not a reflection of someone else’s perception.  Sometimes our stories can be lost or hidden from view unless we find our own voice.  Writing allows an expression of that longing to be heard when we’re surrounded by other versions, other perspectives and other agendas that can distort and embellish the validity of our own experience.

Writing has been a path to my middle ground.  It’s there at the center of my thoughts where I’m able to find that thread of continuity of my own self.  It surprises me when, after procrastinating on getting started, I find a joy and freedom that begins to awaken and I wonder why I waited to begin.  It’s an awakening that points to the whole ‘me’.

What stands out in my memory about my writing experience over the years, more than the keeping of a diary or writing a personal journal, is that writing has become a way to be able to identify the process of finding out where I fit within the middle of things …… my reality.

I remember an award I received in an Anthology of New York-New Jersey High School Essays ~ “Young America Speaks”.  I was genuinely surprised that my essay was chosen and I felt mine wasn’t as good as the other high school writers.  When I reread what I wrote at this time of my life, I can clearly see that what I wrote was helping me to find my place ……. where I belonged in the middle of things.  I belong to a family of writers ~ my father, my mother, my two brothers.  When I wrote I was saying I was a part of it all and that I belonged here.

Whenever I attempted to write poetry, it was usually at a more challenging time in my life.  When I was sorting through life’s paradoxes and finding my way through the complexities and seeking answers.  When I wasn’t able to find the words to express what was going on inside, writing poetry helped to define that struggle.

There’s value in writing!  Sharing what we write is secondary to just the pure act of putting pen to paper.  When it comes to the gifts and revelations we receive about life, both now and in the future, writing is a priceless contribution to ourselves and others.



20 thoughts on “Me in the Middle of Writing

  1. Thank-you for sharing a great post Mary Lou! I’ve been blogging for awhile now, and what I really like about it is that I find myself living more in the moment, as I experience things, reflect on those experiences, and then write about them.

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    • I’ve experienced that too Christina! Now that I’ve retired I’ve been doing writing and watercolor sketching. Both help me to live in the moment and appreciate life more. 🙂


  2. Good morning Mary Lou! I enjoyed reading this perspective on writing. I can definitely relate to procrastinating getting started and then the joy when I’m in a flow. And, of course, the second guessing and comparing to others. But ultimately, the writing is a journey of self-discovery. Thank you for a lovely start to my day. May you be happy! #MLSTL

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  3. Well, thank you for sharing and the quote…wow. Yes, I have lived and am living the life I write about and the writing helps me understand me more too. Denyse #mlstl

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  4. I too love the quote you used. I hope to get more writing done in the coming year. I also hope to visit blogs more because I love reading the stories that writers such as yourself share.


  5. HI Mary Lou, loved this post and particularly the first quotation: “I must write it all out at any cost. Writing is thinking. It is more than living, for it is being conscious of living.” ~ Anne Morrow Lindbergh ~ So true. But as Hemingway said you also have to live to write – nothing comes from nothing. I wrote about this in the very first writing course I ever did – I think it was my first assignment. I wonder if I still have it somewhere – gosh about 35 years ago. #MLSTL and shared on SM

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    • Thank you Johanna! I’ve been going through some of my earlier writings (not many since I was busy raising my family) and seeing all the connections and growth through writing! 🙂


  6. I did a series on Anne Morrow Lindbergh’s thoughts a couple of months ago Mary Lou – she sums the whole writing jouney up so well doesn’t she? My husband also feels the same way about writing poetry – he says you have to be suffering to write poetry well!

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